charis and his chocolate factory.


wonkie.



23
30th December 86'
Metro-Sexual
Clubbing/Chilling out
Piano/Window shopping
Ryuichi Sakamoto/Pachelbel
Clayderman/Literature


Yearns to..
Shop
Chill in hip cafes
Stroll along the beach
Explore around
Admire himself
Kiss someone


Spot a shooting star..
3-room apartment by the sea
Bang & Olufsen Hi-Fi equipment
BMW 3-Series
Bell & Ross 03-92


With
Her
Nothing else really matters?..


Reminiscent the Nostalgia...



Free your Mind.




The world outside..


Cell Group :)


Nicole
Natasha
Alyssa
Beitris
Sharon
Natalia
JoeL
Nad
Amanda
Thomas
Denise
Ai Lin
Sharon Cheris
Ken
cHriStiNe-
EsThEr
ZaLi
ZiXianG
ShiJiA
Katherine
Hui lin
Jie Hao
Jo
Cherlene
Shin Yi
Xiu LinG
Shaun

Tuesday, May 19, 2009, 4:30 PM

Needs of a Woman.

Year 2009, lets see, the most memorable church sermon ive been to..it definitely has to be the one on fulfilling the needs of the fairer gender.


Let's break it down.

1. Affection
2. Conversation
3. Honesty & Openess
4. Financial Support
5. Family Commitment

Well, the century old adage used to be - women can never ever be satisfied..haha..we'll see.

Let me digress then.

1.Affection

Even though the 21st century women are very free-spirited with an independent mindset, @ the bottom line, the fundamental need for love remains, but i believe women, being emotionally fragile than men..needs to be showered with love & care.

2.Conversation

Research have shown that women tend to be chatty LOL..haha, well...i guess thats good since it's crucial to express emotions. :)

3.Honesty & Openess

No cheating! - Be frank - but not straightforward. I believe that problems are meant to be shared to spouses..afterall, 2 heads are better than 1 yah? Heh :)


My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.

She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 200 in about 3 seconds.'
I bought her a scale..

And that's when the fight started....

No, not by being straightforward :P

4. Financial Support

Lets see, im not a rich person...and i hope i won't be married to a lady with high maintenance :X

But well, yeah..i believe it's the duty of everymen to be able to support their wives.
Guys, i know - this may sound unfair (tsk tsk gender discrimination =X) but i believe that men, being the stronger gender, at the bottom line, should be able to fulfill his duty as a husband and as a father, by providing for the family when everything else fails.

Of course, we can't expect ladies to support the family mah. Haha.

5. Family Commitment

The last, but NEVER the least. Stay commited always. The head of the house - enough said. By being the head of the house, there's plenty of implied responsibility - For us as men.